GOALS FOR 2019: FOR YOUR LOVE LIFE

It does not come as a shocker when all of us suddenly want our lives to be perfect by the end of the year. We all have a set of resolutions and goals for the upcoming year. In 2019, we have all started to think of the changes we want. It is said that rather than coming up with various resolutions, come up with plans and goals which you will not abandon in the middle of the month or year. Also, It is all about making your life, career, relationships better and happier- that should be the goal. It is noticed that several people end up setting goals such as eating healthier, little do they realize that even though it is really good to be ambitious and to keep a tab on what one eats but nobody changes as a human. A person who loves junk might pretend to hate it for a while but eventually will have a cheat day. At the end of the day, it is all about habits. I am here talking about making life simpler. I am talking about having structured goals that could be broken down into steps. Also, while one can strive for an overall improvement, one still needs to pick one or more things to focus on. 

With New Year, comes new goals even for the relationship that you have been trying to nurture. It is said that trying to achieve the same goals as your partner can even help in getting more closer to each other than you could have imagined. There are several nay-sayers when it comes to New Year’s resolutions. Many even argue that they don’t work at all. But, time and again we have witnessed how beautifully various relationships can be nurtured with the help of the right nudge and in many cases, the nudge are the Goals for the year, here in this case Goals for 2019. Several studies have showcased that the zeal with which one starts the year, also makes them a better person and a much more disciplined soul. Now, you require discipline in all aspects of life- be it relationships, work, play, or anything. So, why not introduce this into your love life specifically and make this a wonderful year of love for the two of you? No matter what stage you are in your relationship, you can identify achievable resolutions for a happier, more fulfilling partnership. The following goals for 2019 can be personal resolutions for your dating life. Also, resolutions that you and your partner can plan together.

If you are interested in adding a few pointers in the relationship goals to your calendar in 2019. Consider the following tips! 

MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP PUBLIC

A lot of us have had our well-defined relationships but we have not taken that one step to make it public. This year, you can make it public and official for good. This important step plays a crucial role in making everything work out in a relationship. It does not even have to be extremely grand. It can just be a cute picture posted on social media, telling the world how much you guys love each other and what you both mean to each other. 

NO PHONE HOUR

Cultivate real conversations. Good communication is the basis of a good relationship. Try to connect over a cup of coffee in the morning or have tech-free meals instead of being on your phone all the time when you are together. This should be a shared goal for you and your partner which is important to keep the relationship alive, connected, and committed. Your undivided attention communicates to your partner, “ You are important to me, and what you say matters.”

GIVE THEM THE MOST ROMANTIC GIFT EVER

It is crazy but this works. Trust me. In case you have been wanting to make the first move, just give them a toothbrush – whacky idea, yes, but that sends the message directly and to the point. You can also make it a point to remind your loved ones what they mean to you by giving them gifts now and then and making them happy all the time. One does not always have to give a gift, an expensive gift can always be a gift that would hold emotional value. It is a beautiful gesture, trust me one should do that all the time and make it a point to turn this goal into reality.

TRY TO BE MORE ADVENTUROUS

We do not have the time due to the hustle-bustle of corporate life. So that we can keep the romance, love of a relationship alive. The adventure keeps life interesting. It is never too late to spice things up in a relationship. Shared adventures make you feel closer to your partner. This New Year’s make it a goal to not let the love die out and get boring at all.

LEARN SOMETHING NEW

Isn’t it always fun to learn things together? You and your partner can make it even more fun when you decide to learn something completely new. Say, dancing, or poetry or to cook? Who knows how much fun it might be to go through the early days of schooling together? It is a must-try.

TRY A MEMORY JAR

This sounds all interesting in the movies and series but is a charming means of keeping your relationship alive. You can always write little notes about how much you love your beloved and what is that beautiful thing that just made you smile. It is an amazing feeling when both of you can learn about your feelings by reading them on the day of your anniversary.

REGULAR TRIPS

It is of utmost importance to be able to take up as many trips as possible with your partner. Make 2019 memorable by taking several trips with your beloved and relax. Probably, away from the world. 

All the above are some basic pointers. It is of great importance to make your loved one feel special and important. We all end up being busy with the regular chores of our life. But let us make this new year a special one. Try and make it memorable for your loved ones and the relationship. Little things here and there and all the love can make this year one of the finest. A time to look back to in the future. Remember that you’re the captain of your ship and the writer of your movie.